Watching a loved one slowly fade away due to Alzheimer’s disease is an emotionally exhausting journey for families, filled with uncertainty and grief. As a caregiver, you may find yourself wondering if you are doing enough or if it is time to seek outside help. Determining when to transition to hospice care is never an easy decision, but you do not have to make it alone.
At Shiloh Hospice, we seek to serve as a fountain of comfort and support for families in the Greater Chicago area. We understand that every patient travels a unique path. However, we also recognize that there are common milestones in the progression of dementia that suggest extra support is necessary.
Some of the key signs that hospice may be the next step for your loved one include:
As you consider whether hospice care is close at hand, let’s look at how each of these can manifest in an Alzheimer’s patient’s life.
Recognizing the specific symptoms of end-stage dementia can help you feel more confident in making decisions about hospice care.
In the early stages of the disease, your loved one may have needed reminders to eat or dress. As the condition progresses, they eventually lose the cognitive ability to perform these activities entirely. When a patient becomes fully dependent on others for feeding, bathing, dressing and toileting, the burden on family caregivers becomes immense and can benefit from the support of hospice services.
Cognitive decline often manifests as more than just memory loss. It can lead to severe anxiety and agitation. You might observe a phenomenon known as “sundowning,” where confusion and restlessness peak in the late afternoon or evening. This can be distressing for both the patient and the family. Hospice teams can help address this by using relaxation techniques and prescribing appropriate medications.
In the final stages of Alzheimer’s, patients often lose the ability to walk or hold their head up without assistance. They may become bed-bound and susceptible to skin breakdown or infections.
Communication also changes drastically. A person who was once talkative may only be able to say a few words. Even when they cannot speak, hospice support staff and volunteers can assist families in providing companionship and comfort, ensuring they never feel alone.
Perhaps the most significant indicator is a shift in the goals for their care. If the quality of their remaining time becomes more important than continuing to try aggressive life-extending treatments, hospice is likely the right choice. Physician-directed services focus on palliative measures that allow the patient to remain comfortable at home, surrounded by familiar faces and loving acts.
Choosing to start hospice is not about giving up hope. Rather, it redefines hope to focus on comfort, connection and peace.
If you recognize these signs discussed above in your loved one, we invite you to reach out to our team at Shiloh Hospice as you consider your next steps. We serve families across Cook, Will and DuPage counties with comprehensive, culturally sensitive care. Let us help you navigate this transition so you can focus on being a family member again.